Monday, June 18, 2012

Girl Gets Ring FREE Book

You have found the "girl gets ring free book" "download" I hope that You enjoy reading the Girl Gets Ring Book. First Dates: You don’t get a second chance to make a first impression. So how do you make sure you get it right the first time? How much should you leave up to him? How can you step in without stepping on his toes?

Steer the conversation; one of the most important things is to avoid talking about boring topics. If you can, STEER AROUND boring topics such as a long diatribe of his or your responsibilities at work, your class electives, etc.

If a hunk of icy conversation gets dropped on the road in front of you, just like driving on ice, you want to STEER INTO THE SLIDE.

How?

By using open ended questions that steer into the conversation, but explore a DEEPER
subject.

Here are some beginning exploration phrases you can use to steer with:

. What…
. How…
. Why…




Tell me more about ____________ . Where _________ is the topic which could be more fun and
revealing.



Here’s an example:

Him: I speak 3 languages fluently and I work for the embassy translating Japanese
documents into English.

You: Hmmm…a man of words huh? Impressive. What’s the weirdest or most fun
document you’ve had to translate?

Him: Well, they are usually ‘legal’ related so they can be quite boring, but I guess the weirdest one was how in Japan, when you get into an auto accident each party involved is assigned a certain percentage of fault. What’s weird is that if you are a foreigner in Japan, you automatically get assigned a certain percentage of fault, because in their eyes, if you weren’t in Japan, you wouldn’t have had the accident in the first place.

You: Whoa! Thanks for visiting Japan! Come again so we can sue you soon!

Him: Yeah, exactly.


You: I love to travel; can you tell me more about Japan? Have you visited?

Him: I actually lived there for 18 months. (Silence.)

You: You must have learned quite a bit about Japanese customs? How has living with
Japanese customs for 18 months changed you?

Him: Well, I speak Japanese well. But I was most moved by...(and he talks at length about who he is and how he’s different after living in Japan and you learn MUCH about him…and he starts feeling connected.)

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